I am a forty-something Mother to two children: Daughter (born ’02) and Son (born ’04). In my previous life (i.e. before kids) I was a medical research scientist. Now I run my own part-time business as a consultant to lawyers in need of expert medical opinions. I am also a Leader with La Leche League.
Husband is an engineer who designs circuit boards and chips for a wide variety of electronic devices. He and his partner are independent contractors, a flexible position that allows him to spend at least half his time working from home. We live on beautiful Vancouver Island, just off the southwest coast of British Columbia, Canada.
Free Learning, also known as unschooling, is a type of homeschooling whereby children are free to pursue their interests on their own time, at their own pace, and under their own direction. Free learners have total ownership over their education. Parents play an active role by being involved in their children’s lives, providing them with learning resources and a supportive home environment, a varied selection of regular activities, and a community of like-minded families (where possible). Inherent to this type of homeschooling is the belief that learning is a natural process, that children are driven by biological instinct to learn, and that this natural process is disrupted by coercive, instruction-based schooling methods.
I was very fortunate to have met a few unschooling families when Daughter was still young and Son had not yet been born. They were part of a small community of local mothers, myself included, who had found each other through the Internet and who pursued a philosophy of Natural Family Living. As I spent time with these families I learned about choices in education I hadn’t known existed. I got to see the products of a Life Without School in the older children, ask endless questions, and explore the possibility long before having to make that decision for my children. The more I learned, the more books I read, and the more time I spent with my children the more it appealed to me. When Daughter was three years old we made the decision to homeschool and have never looked back.
Our province is very progressive when it comes to education; there are several Distributed Learning Programs that cater to homeschoolers. We are with the Self-Design program, whose methodology focuses on learner-directed, enthusiasm-based learning. The program provides resources, support, and funding to its families for the K through 12th grade learning years.
In early 2010 we moved to a rural property with a small mobile home and 4 acres of very overgrown and neglected woodland. We are slowly turning this place into a family farm – clearing land, putting up fencing, acquiring livestock, growing vegetables, and generally figuring it all out as we go along. You can follow that journey on my other blog, Rural Aspirations.
This blog contains older posts from past blogs that include musings on parenting and life in general. Then for a while I was focusing solely on unschooling, but recently I’ve expanded the subject matter to include adventures on our new homestead, parenting issues, rural living, and anything else that tickles my fancy.
Thanks for stopping by!
Hello,
I am a mom of three young children (5, 22 months and 4 months). My eldest is entering his kindergarten year this September, currently he is enrolled in a Catholic school in Burnaby. I have been interested in homelearning for quite sometime but don’t know where to begin my quest. I read your blog and agree with you completely with your philosophy. I struggle everyday with the idea of homeschooling instead of “sending him out to the wolves” at school. I feel very alone with my interest in this type of learning. Most of my peers view this as a very strange type of thinking and even my husband does not agree with it completely. I only want what’s best for my children and I need to gain more knowledge about what kind of lifestyle this entails for us if I choose to try it out. Could you please direct me in any way, perhaps support groups, someone I can talk to etc…
I appreciate any feedback!
Clara
how reFRESHing to hear your views on school, being a Mama and loving your children! all i got to say is right on Mama
I think i saw another blog that u have, i’ll have to check it out too. How wonderful you have a community of other like~minded Mamas in your area. That has been one of my most challenging issues as a Mama. I keep putting it out there in hopes to find ‘my tribe’ someday. I too thought i’d homeschool my children, then I liked the idea of Waldorf which we are now just embarking on the Waldorf journey…it’s interesting and good so far, especailly when it comes to the snack that the children eat!!! BONUS! Do you know of any Moms who have experienced Waldorf education? I didn’t see an email option for you so hopefully you’ll get this note….that reminds me I need to figure out how to add “email me here” click option on my blog….time to get dinner cooking…
~Namaste~
I knew we should have had an MDC gathering at Life is Good! Piglet was there and I had no idea! Dang! (Just now followed you here from MDC…) Well, maybe next time?
Hi There,
I have recently moved to Kitsilano after the past year of traveling the Eastern States, and then Europe. I homeschool my two boys and am looking for ideas of how to find a network of homeschooled children in the Vancouver area.
Do you have any recommendations for me?
Thank you,
Jennifer
Hi There! You left a comment on my blog awhile back and I just now got around to taking a peek at yours! I love it! We live on a ranch in Texas and unschool 5 kids, aged 5 – 16. Would love to have a BC pen pal!
Good afternoon,
After spending some time on FreeLearning today, I was hoping to chat with you about including my site as a resource! Shoot me an email if you are interested in more info!
Thanks!
hi, i live on vancouver island with my soon-to-be-11 year old daughter. she is currently enrolled in the francophone school system but weve been thinking about switching to homeschooling/unschooling when shes finished her 6th year. if you know of any unschooling groups/families on the island, would you be able to point us in their general direction? or them in ours?
thank-you so much!
Can’t find your email adress, you won a keyring! Can you email your adress to me at mamapoekie @ yahoo . com
Hi, I love your blog and reading about your bright and spirited children! Your daughter reminds me of mine (also unschooled) at that age. It sounds like you are doing a fabulous job with them.
There is an ulterior motive to writing, I confess: my daughter, now 17, is passionate about science and math and doing several courses through MIT open courseware. In our community, where there is no university of any description, the stimulating discussions about these topics that she longs for are hard to come by, as are lab facilities for the projects she has in mind. She is looking for mentors to talk to, correspond with, and help in their research. While reading some of your posts I thought the two of you would get along very well, but unfortunately we live on the other side of the province. Then I wondered if any of your graduate students would like a research assistant. Any other suggestions would be very welcome. Please e-mail me when you have a moment.
Hello, I was searching about strange tooth shape of babies and saw your message (2005) in the mothering.com forum. My daughter (13 months) also has that kind of strange shape with her top front teeth, they look like a little T shape when looking up from the bottom. Saw a dentist the other day and he said he had seen them in adults but never babies, couldn’t do anything as it’s still early days. May I ask if that particular tooth of your son’s is now normal or still the same as the milk tooth? I am quite worried and couldn’t find anyone has the same case to share on the internet apart from you. Hope you can help. Many thanks
Maria
Hi Maria!
My son is six and has not lost that tooth yet. However, he’s had two pediatric dentists look at it and both have said it’s nothing at all to worry about. And that there’s a good chance the adult tooth will be normal, but even if it isn’t I’ve been told that there is no ill effect from having this kind of tooth.
hope that eases your worries!
Saw your Qs on familyrun re aspergers and wd love to talk. My son is 6.5 also. I read the “just unschool it’ll be fine” posters and I feel dismissed, they have no idea…my son has multiple issues and…well…wd love to talk via email gratefulmama4 at att dot net